tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16020407.post1546722130368572767..comments2023-12-25T22:23:48.273-06:00Comments on CVSTOS FIDEI: Courting for the 21st Century CatholicTito Edwardshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12218771096085701665noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16020407.post-37492216913690376322008-10-03T10:51:00.000-05:002008-10-03T10:51:00.000-05:00The most important points I read here were the one...The most important points I read here were the ones dealing with communication (do it) and realizing a person is a whole package, which includes history, family, friends, and the like.<BR/><BR/>My wife and I married earlier this year. We'd been engaged for a year and a half, and had been dating for two years prior to that. It is amazing what you can learn about each other in that amount of time, and it is amazing what you can still discover.<BR/><BR/>My biggest advice is: don't be afraid of arguing. Sara and I argue all the time, and it helps us quite a bit. We each learn each other's feelings, and if we delve deep enough, we learn history and how that has brought us to our current conclusions. (It especially helps me in learning where I'm wrong, conceited, or various other conditions that are far from flattering.)Ryan Harkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11561112702845683830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16020407.post-38642482764866207872008-10-02T09:23:00.000-05:002008-10-02T09:23:00.000-05:00My discoveries: 1. You don't shop for BBQ at the ...My discoveries: <BR/><BR/>1. You don't shop for BBQ at the library. Go where BBQ may be found. Similarly, you don't look for moms at the club. <BR/><BR/>2. You're marrying a wife for yourself, a daughter for your parents, and a sister for your siblings. <BR/><BR/>3. Ask yourself of a potential woman: If I had a daughter just like her, how would I feel about that?<BR/><BR/>4. Would the world be better with more copies of this woman?<BR/><BR/>5. If I died, would I trust her to raise the kids right?bgeorge77https://www.blogger.com/profile/14524051055544962510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16020407.post-51230894487995004482008-10-02T07:30:00.000-05:002008-10-02T07:30:00.000-05:00I am going to share this with my teens!I am going to share this with my teens!Mary Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401661519174098212noreply@blogger.com